Khutab 2011
The 16 Days of Activism For No Violence Against Women And Children. PDF  | Print |

The 16 Days of Activism For No Violence Against Women And Children.

Khutbah - C.M.R.M. -2-12-2011.

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Almighty Allah exhorts us in the Holy Quran: And among His signs are - that He created for you spouses from among yourselves-  so that you may dwell in peace and tranquillity with them  - And he has put love and compassion between your hearts.  Verily in this are signs for those who (are conscious) and contemplate /reflect/ ponder /ruminate the H.Q. (RUM 30:21)

The 16 days of activism for no violence against women and children is an international campaign that takes place every year from 25th November (International day for the elimination of violence against women) to 10th. December (International Human Rights Day). The period includes Universal Children’s Day and World AIDS Day.

During this time, the South African Government runs 16 days -activism campaign to make people aware of the negative impact of violence on women and children and to act against abuse.  And they are firmly committed to lead a coordinated effort to sustain the campaign into its next decade.

Every year, government, civil-society, NGO’s and the business sector work together to broaden the impact of the campaign. By supporting this campaign, thousands of South Africans have also helped to increase awareness of abuse and build support for victims and survivors of abuse.

Prophet Muhammad (saw) stated that the basis of this religion is nothing but sincere council, advice and admonishment –“AD -DEENOEN -NASEEHA”- And it is very interesting to note that the word Naseehah also means sincerity in the Arabic language. So it simply means that advice that is not sincere in Islam is meaningless. Together I believe we should look at some Islamic insights into our precarious times and find solutions and suggestions on how peace and honour can be restored to women and children, -creating an environment whereby each individual is respected and his human dignity honoured.

Imagine if, for 16 days, there was no rape, no child abuse. The 16 Days of Activism for No Violence Against Women and Children campaign challenges South Africans to declare a truce on violence against women and children - and, ultimately, to make it a permanent one. Around the country, South Africans are being called on to combat violence against women and children

Women and child abuse, which stretches across all ethnic, educational, and socio economic lines, results in severe emotional, physical and psychological pain for many women and children, a stacking up of sins for many men, and many weak, unhappy families that fail to contribute adequately to the development of the community.   

 

Despite the severity of the problem, the community has largely closed its eyes and devoted very few resources to helping the victims and stopping the abusers. This is very unfortunate because family violence is one of South Africa's most critical health problems. The social dynamics prevalent in society which fuel violent behavioural patterns are: widespread poverty; unemployment; differences in income;   patriarchal notions of masculinity that valorize power;  experience of abuse during childhood;- weak parenting;  widespread intoxicant misuse;   and of lack of sufficient law enforcement.  20% of women surveyed in antenatal clinics in South Africa reported sexual violence by an intimate partner and 30% reported psychological abuse. 

 

These are absolutely astronomical statistics – and our research we have also uncovered that large numbers of Muslim women are abused verbally, emotionally, physically, and sexually by their Muslim husbands. (There are no hard numbers in the Muslim Community of South Africa, because Community leaders have not taken the well-known problem seriously enough to research).  And Despite Islamic teachings of justice and compassion, global research shows many Muslim women in Africa, South Africa- the United States, Europe and other parts of the world, even in so- called "Islamic Countries" are no exception.

The Prophet (saw) reminds: That Iman (faith) is linked to kind and loving treatment of women and children- when he stated: The Believers who show the most perfect Iman  are those who  have the best  Ahlaaq and Adhaab   - And the best from among you are those who treat their wives and children the best.

The Prophet Muhammad, (peace be upon him), also said "All of you are shepherds and all of you will be questioned about your wards...(And the man will be questioned about his family)."

With knowledge and understanding of the Marriage comes responsibility  - 4/34    The Male is the supporter -maintainer– caregiver, and protector of his females --   Support is a mutual expression of love, and has no pre-conditions other than that it should subscribe to the Islamic Shariah. --- The husband should recognise this as his divine responsibility and not seek to impose it as a favour on his family.--

It is - this balance that prevails in all aspects of a marital relationship and is indeed the recipe for success. -- It is also important for men to understand that just because they have been given the duty of protecting their spouse and providing for her, this does not mean that they are allowed to act unjustly or prevent them from developing secularly and Islamically.  - Rather he is merely carrying out a divine obligation placed upon him by his Creator. He has no choice in the matter and although he should not pass unappreciated by his wife and family - he has no right to demand respect.

To this end, and to buffer any clash of personality traits, man has been advised to be kind and gentle in his conduct. It is not befitting for a Muslim man to exert  his status, physical strength or social ties to suppress his wife and family. The Prophet (saw) said: "The best among you is he who is good and kind to his family, and, among you, I am the best to  my family. - At-Tirmidhi & others (Sahih)

(Rahmah): Compassion / Mercy / kindness –Women and children have the right to be respected and Prophet Muhammad (saws) stated, "He is not of us who does not have (RAHMAH) compassion for his fellow beings". It is interesting to note that when it comes to Hadith like this or Qur'anic quotes dealing with human behaviour, we never stop to think that our women and children are also our fellow human beings and that these golden rules must also be applied to them. -- Compassion is only one component of the concept of Rahmah- the others being –- kindness, respect, gentleness and of course love.

Remember the displeasure of Prophet Muhammad (saws) when it was reported to him how Al-Aqra ibn Habis never showed kindness or kissed and hugged any of his ten children.   Upon hearing that the Prophet Muhammad (saw) told him, The Prophet (saw) also stated: Allah will hold off His mercy and compassion to the one who has no mercy and compassion towards others." - Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) encouraged parents to be kind and gentle towards their children. He described the sacrifice of parents in providing and nurturing their children as a "screen from the Fire" (Bukhaari).

We must also recognise that peace in the Arabic language – Salaam  and the same root in Hebrew – Shalom - comes from a tripartite radical – “SALIMA”  which means to be whole –The nature of peace is wholeness– Its an integrity- that people must be allowed to live their lives holistically and productively. Islam is also salaam (peace) and tasleem (submission to the Divine). In Islam - peace is the standard, it is the principle, and each person of faith has the moral obligation to maintain peace, without compromising on justice and truth. Islam invites to the Subulas-salaam (pathway of peace); peace of mind, peace of conscience, peace in the family and society, peace with one's Creator and His creation. In a religious context Islam means attainment of peace, inward and outward, through voluntary submission to the will of God.  "Allah" is the Arabic equivalent name for God, which is used by Arab Muslims and Christians alike. Islam is then a way of life - of peace, mercy, justice, forgiveness, tolerance, inclusiveness and human dignity for all.

If we look at the age before Islam-  It was called the Age of Jahilliyah – Jahilliyah according to the Scholars of the Arabic language means – impetuous behaviour - it is behaviour without deliberation - it is behaviour without thinking –it  a revengeful and violent behaviour.

The Jahilliyah Arab – buried his daughters alive - abused women and children -  He believed that the birth of a daughter was a slight to his honour and was considered a serious `ayb (disgrace or shame) and necessitated that he give the maximum and utmost response - and anything that he did out of rashness and zealotary was an appropriate and proportionate response to the slighting of his honour.

Prophet Muhammad (saw) brought a new way – a way of love forbearance, forgiveness,  tolerance and compassion - He taught that women had to be honoured and respected and that children was a gift from Allah. Let us remember that we are part of Allah's creation and have a duty to harmonise our will with the rest of creation. Only when we are able to do this and to live in peace and harmony with one another, then are we ready to submit ourselves fully and unconditionally to the will of Allah. Then and only then, can we take up our place as Allah's Vicegerents on Earth.

IN CONCLUSION --What we can do?

Together, let us take actions to support the 16 days of activism for no violence against women and children campaign.

Speak out against woman and child abuse. Encourage silent female victims to talk about abuse and ensure that they get help.

Report child abuse to the authorities. Encourage children to report bully behaviour to school authorities. Men and boys are encouraged to talk about abuse and actively discourage abusive behaviour.

Volunteer in support of NGO’s and community groups who support abused women and children: Many organisations need assistance from the public. You can volunteer your time and make a contribution to the work of institutions.

Seek help if you are emotionally, physically or sexually abusive to your partner and/or children.

Challenge the perpetrators of violence to change their behaviour. Involve men in helping to eradicate violence.

Provide survivors with information on services and organisations that can help lessen the impact of violence on their lives.

LET US PRAY. -- O Almighty Allah, help us always to remember that we should love and care for the most precious gifts of all -your creation, the innocent child. Help us always to remember that we are leaving our mark on them that time will never erase. Give us patience with those who are slow to learn, and tolerance with those who do not want to learn.

When we have to discipline them, help us to do so with firmness, and yet, with love.  Keep us from using a sarcastic and biting tongue, and help us always to encourage and never to belittle those who are doing their best, even if their best is sometimes not good enough.

O Allah help us to follow in the footsteps of the best parent -father and husband -  and the greatest teacher of mankind, the guide of all humanity, Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him.

Rab Bana  - Our Lord!   Help us always to use our time to forgive, to love, to bring peace, to help heal, to reconcile, and to work hard for the bringing of Your will on earth. Help us to love and to appreciate those whom you have given to us, and to cherish them while we have time.

Rab Bana  -  Our Lord    If we have been impatient with someone,  help us to find the grace to remember that You Almighty Allah are pleased with snails and tortoises just as much as with racehorses and greyhounds. If we have been short tempered with someone, help us to find patience and sympathy, for one of the hardest things to face is the guilt - the many " if only's" the many times we have said things that should not have been said, or not said the things that should have been said, done things that should not have been done, and not done things which should have been done. If we have been hurt or disappointed by someone, help us to forgive, and to love them more and try to change the situation because choosing to love and forgive is vital for our wholeness.

"Our Lord Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort and coolness of our eyes, and grant us – the grace to lead them into goodness and righteousness."

 
Celebrating Islam PDF  | Print |

Claremont Main Road Mosque. 11/11/2011.

Masjidul Ummah.  25/11/2011

Imam Noor Salie.

Khutbah.  -"Celebrating Islam"

 

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Almighty Allah exhort us: You are the best of People  evolved for mankind. Enjoining what is right, forbidding what is evil, and believing in Allah - (3-110)

And: Truth have now arrived and falsehood perished .  For falsehood is by its Nature is bound to perish.

And: "This day have I perfected your religion (way of life)  for you, completed my favours upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion and way of life." (5:4)

The prophet (saw) stated:  for every “deen” (Way of Life) there is a specific morality and the specific morality of Islam is Modesty.

And:-- He has tasted the sweetness of faith who is pleased with Allah as his Lord – with Islam as his way of life and with Muhammad as his Rasool and Nabi. (Muslim)

All Thanks And Praise is due to Almighty Allah for having guided us to this great Deen (Way of Life) of Islam –and we ask Almighty Allah to guide us to Ihsaan –(The higher levels of consciousness) And we pray Allah to shower His love and blessings upon our beloved Prophet -Muhammad (saw).

We are celebrating our efforts in worshipping Allah throughout the year; celebrating the mercy, the forgiveness, and the protection from Hell fire that had come to cover all of us in the past year. Yes, indeed, we are celebrating all that, but we also celebrating something much more important. - the fact that we are Muslims and Mu'min– (Believers)

We are in fact celebrating, our being members of the greatest faith and way of life ever revealed to mankind, our being believers in the most beautiful and the most comprehensive scripture that ever descended from heaven to earth, ---  our being followers of the greatest man that ever walked on the face of the earth, our being believers in Allah, the One and Only

Islam is the faith and way of life - that defines us, defines who we are, defines our identity. Islam is the religion and way of life that Allah has chosen for us, has perfected for us, and has granted --- us as the Quran has eloquently expressed:  - "This day I have perfected your religion/ your way of life for you, completed my favours  upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion." (5:4)

Islam is a favour, a privilege, and a bounty from Allah. Islam does not need us. We need Islam. All we have to do is to be grateful for such a great blessing and say, -  "Praise be to Allah who has guided us to this: never could we have found guidance, had it not been for the guidance of Allah" (7:43) - But why is it that we believe that Islam is such a tremendous bounty from Allah? Because there is nothing like Islam on earth:

It is Islam that has taught human beings that the Lord their God is One and Only. That He has no partners, no wife, and no son, and that there can be no compromise on the unity of God. – In Tauheed – Unicity and Indivisibility of Allah.

It is Islam that taught human beings that they are all equal and that no Arab is superior to non-Arab, nor a non-Arab is superior to an Arab and that the best of all of us is the one who is most righteous.

It is Islam that has taught human beings that they are all brothers and sisters created from a single pair of a male and a female. Therefore, Islam, unlike Hinduism, neither recognizes nor condones the idea of a caste system. Islam is a war on caste systems, on aristocracies, and hereditary social groups of all kinds.

It is Islam that has taught humanity the value of the intellect, the importance of the acquisition of Knowledge - reflection, and the role of the mind in attaining faith and peace with Almighty Allah – peace with one-self and peace with all of mankind and peace with the environment and the ecology.

Christianity teaches that one can never become a believer except when the Holy Spirit mysteriously occupies one's heart. Islam teaches that faith is the fruit of reason and it is through continuous reflection on the wonders of creation that faith can be obtained, maintained, and nurtured.

It is Islam that has taught humanity that people of all races, all colours, and all ethnicities are perfectly capable of attaining faith in the One and Only God. Muslims should never be confused about unity- Hindus believe that Hinduism is just for those privileged to be born in the faith and therefore they do not invite the "less privileged" to embrace their faith. Jews believe that they are the chosen race and even when they accept others to embrace Judaism; those converts are always lower in rank than those born as Jews. Islam rejects all that and calls upon all people of all backgrounds to submit themselves to their Creator. Once they do, they automatically become members of the community of Islam with the same rights and duties as any other Muslim. Islam is not, and can never be, the monopoly of one race or a certain linguistic group.

It is Islam that has taught humanity that Almighty Allah is absolutely Just and Merciful and that He will never punish one person for the sins of others. Christianity teaches that Adam and Eve had bequeathed their sin to all their descendants and thus all humans are born in this "Original Sin" and therefore Jesus Christ had to be sacrificed on the cross to redeem humanity of its 'original sin.' Islam says, Humans are not born in sin. No person will be held accountable for another's mistakes. Every soul will pay for its own deeds. Divine justice is absolute. (41/46) Whosoever does any righteous deeds will benefit himself – and whosoever does any evil deeds –it will be against himself (Haamim Sajdah / Surah Fussilat) (41/46)

It is Islam that has taught humanity how to balance the needs of this life and the next. Almighty Allah says in the Holy QuranThus We (Allah) have made you (Muslims) as an Ummah justly balanced – (Not going into extremes in anything  - in education – in ideals – that you may be witnesses and examples over all other nations – and the Prophet (saw) will be a witness over you (on the day of Hisaab). The Quran encourages us to develop communities that keep an equitable balance between extremes and is realistic in its appreciation of man’s nature and possibilities Islam  came to eradicate extremism – even in religious matters - because extremism leads to fanatism) - Islam rejects both licentious behaviour and religious fanaticism. In tune with this injunction, Almighty God (Allah) calls on Muslims not to place too great an emphasis on the physical and material aspects of life.

Islam does not accept the idea that renunciation of this world is the best means to get salvation in the next. Catholicism and Buddhism teach that by living a reclusive life, one can attain higher spirituality. Buddhism even taught the recluse must make his living by begging. Islam rejects the whole notion of the alleged goodness of renouncing the world. Islam teaches that best means for advancement in the next life is by getting involved in the affairs of this world by commanding good and forbidding evil; by helping one another in righteousness and piety; by doing Jihad, by struggling against all forms of evil, injustice, tyranny, intolerance...Islam does not teach rejection of the world, it teaches involvement, struggle, change and transformation – A Muslim’s life cannot be static.

Islam is all about socialization –A Muslim is a Social being – Hajj is a major lesson in Socialisation – In Hajj we are part of 3 million people at the same time – and at the same place.

The Prophet (saw) also said – That a Muslim must leave the earth a better place than he found it –A Muslim must also be least problematic to Society and a Muslim must also respect people of other Faith traditions. Islam creates the space for us to interact with people of other Faith traditions  without fear of losing our identities. Indeed, our very Muslimness ensures that we remain unique amongst Allah’s creation..

Creative interaction allows us to be enriched by the experience of people from– other cultures, and faiths traditions. We then become better human beings with an appreciation of the enormous potential for humankind to co-exist in peace and harmony and commitment to the achievement of structured solutions to social problems. To do otherwise is to invite unnecessary evil and pain –

Islam teaches -that in order to be successful, we should draw on the entire creation –– in finding solutions to our common problems. -- Islam is not merely another religious group with its unique dogma and bigotry. Muslims recognize that all people represent creation from a single being– with no claim of superiority over another (except in Taqwah): and to One God only are we accountable and to One God only is our return. This is the real meaning of the Quranic constant refrain, “we make no distinction among all our Prophets”.

Almighty Allah also says  -- Do not revile those who worship others beside Allah, -(People from other Faith Traditions)   - THEN they WILL BE moved by malice and ignorance and revile Allah; thus have we adorned every nation with their own works -- and unto Allah shall they thereafter return and He shall inform them what they have done. :   (S6:108):

It is Islam that has taught humanity that - Women are NOT second class citizens – that there is NO differentiation of reward for Males and females in all acts of Ibadah. Islam has also emphasized the respectful treatment towards women, especially mothers. A mother in Islam is a very respected and honoured person. She is even placed third after Almighty Allah and His Prophet. (saw) -- She is awarded with that position because of her important role of preparing the new generations. She also goes through a lot of pain and suffering in the phases of pregnancy.

In Islam, it is considered as one of the biggest sins to disobey her (except in the case where she contradicts the law of Almighty Allah), or to speak harshly and in an abusive manner to her. Prophet Mohammed (SAW) also said: --Paradise lies underneath the feet of mothers." And he linked the level of faith of men  directly to their treatments to their wives: " Prophet (saw) said " ."  "The believers with the most complete Iman are those with the best character – and the best of you are those who are best to their wives & family."

We cannot go into the future with half of our humanity (OUR FEMALES) imprisoned in a subservient role. The full emancipation of women is vital to our future success and it should not be compromised in any way.  It is Islam that has taught humanity that kindness to parents, to relatives, to neighbours, and to fellow humans is an essential part of faith and righteousness. - Islam teaches one cannot come close to Almighty Allah unless one acts kindly towards one's mother, father, family, neighbours, etc.

It was Islam that eradicated Alcohol, with all its evils, from Arabia. -It was Islam that ended all forms of prostitution, gambling, and intoxicants from the Arabian society. And it was Islam that opened all doors for freeing slaves.

It was Islam that uprooted racism from the Arab mind completely to the extent that the deeply racist and arrogant Arabs would accept to be soldiers in armies whose leaders were black Africans. And above all,   it was Islam that transformed the idolatrous and superstitious Arabs into believing in the One and Only God. It was Islam that transformed them from idol worshippers into a people who could stand together in one line in prayer and prostrate their heads to the Almighty.

The question that irresistibly comes to the mind is this: that was the past, what about now? Can Islam revolutionize the world today as it did to seventh century Arabia? Is Islam relevant today? Does Islam have anything to offer today's world? Yes, a great deal. For us, Muslims living in the West, it would be reasonable to focus on what Islam has to offer to our Western society

The West, as the seventh century Arabia and as any other society for that matter, has its own virtues as well as vices. -- Islam can improve and enhance all the virtues while eliminating -- or, at least, minimizing -- the vices. In a society where alcohol is the number one cause of criminal death and injury; where alcohol costs billions of dollars each year in medical expenses and property damage; where alcohol consumption causes the death of hundreds of thousands of people annually; where alcohol is a major cause of rape and domestic violence -- Is there any faith more able than Islam to prevent all the ills of alcohol?

In a society as violent as the South Africa where some 80,000 lives are taken every year by handguns alone; where a small percentage of the world population consume a large percentage of the world's illegal drugs despite the arrest of some drug dealers every year; where a car is stolen and hijacks take place every few hours; where a woman is raped every few minutes – Islam has a lot more to offer than merely putting more cops in the streets. Islam teaches that prevention is better than cure and that crime can best be reduced by taking care of the family, the community, and the neighbourhood. Islam attaches great esteem and honour to the role of the mother because when she takes proper care of her children, the whole society benefits.

Islam reminds the fathers of their duties, encourages the neighbours to take care of each other's needs, strengthen community bonds, advocates commanding what is right and forbidding what is wrong instead of apathy and individualism. Islam always eliminates problems from their roots.

In a society afflicted with intense individualism, excessive materialism, fierce consumerism, and unabashed sensualism; ----  Islam has the intellectual and the spiritual power required to rectify all the excesses of the society because Islam preaches moderation and balance in all worldly and other-worldly affairs

The problem is we have the theory, but we don't have the practitioners. We have the revolution but we do not have the revolutionaries. And as there can be no democracy without democrats, no socialism without socialists, there also can be no Islam without real Muslims. Islam is a message that is in constant need for messengers to deliver it to the world.  --   Yes, the Book (instruction Manual) of Almighty Allah is there, the guidance of the Prophet (saw) is there, the testimony of history is there, but where are the real Muslims?

Where are the messengers to carry the message forward? Where are the revolutionaries? They effectively do not exist.--  What does exist in the world today is some sort of "de-Islamized" Muslims. -- People who call themselves Muslims, but the Islam they practice is a vague shadow of the Islam described in the magnificent words of the Holy Quran and as exemplified and personified by our beloved Prophet Muhammad (saw).

Muslims who practice an Islam without spirit, an Islam without a message to humanity, an Islam without a mission, an Islam without ambition... An Islam without identity. Islam will never revolutionize the world, as it once did, unless there are “real” Muslims, as they once existed in the time of our beloved Prophet and the Sahaabah iqraam-- Muslims from the inside-out, Muslims in thought and in action, Muslims in theory and in practice, Muslims in private and in public, Muslims in the Mosque and outside the Mosque. Muslims in spirit, in intellect, and in emotions.

I wish to conclude:  The road to produce such Muslims is long and hard. It is perhaps more realistic to focus on just one good first step –“ Iqra’h” – READ ? RESEARCH? ACQUIRE KNOWLEDGE/ BECOME INTELLECTUALISED“”. This first step, I believe, would be to raise and educate a generation of Muslim youth who will take great pride in their great faith.

A generation of young Muslims whose identity and purpose will be purely Islamic, a generation of Muslims for whom Islam comes first and everything else - national, ethnic, racial, linguistic identity - comes, at best, a distant second-- a generation that totally believes in what the great Khalifah Sayidina  Umar once said, " It is only because of Islam that we gained 'izzah' (honor, dignity, and pride), and if we seek 'izzah' outside of Islam, Allah will humiliate us-

Let Us Pray: -- We thank You O Allah for having given us another Day of Eid - for we don't know if we will get another chance next year. –

We thank You O Allah - for choosing Islam as the way of life for us for if we were left astray, we would not have been guided.

O Allah - We thank You for giving us this noble Quran, the Criterion and the Guide and the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (saw). We thank You for increasing our awareness of Yourself, and we pray that we always continue to remember You in good times and in bad times.

O Allah -We pray You to forgive our shortcomings in our Salah, our Zakaah and our recitation of Quran and accept from us what we are able to do and multiply the rewards -

O Allah help us to present the real pattern of Islamic life and social conduct. Let our living examples appeal to the non Muslims who have gone weary of western family life.   O Allah - Help us to encourage them to think over and examine closely the social commandment of Islam. And perhaps in this way we may be able to render a valuable service to this country and to Islam.

- Our Lord, Please accept all our DUAS, for "You are the Hearer, the Knower of DUAHS and forgive us for You are the most forgiving."   (Amin)
 
Hajj - The Journey to Allah PDF  | Print |

Khutbah – Hajj – The Journey To Allah.

Tennyson Street Mosque –Salt River – 23rd September 2011.

Claremont Main Road Masjid - Friday 30th September 2011.

Masjidul Ummah -7th October 2011.

Masdjidul Munier –Constantia -14th October 2011

By - Imam Nur Salie

In the Name of Allah, the Most Compassionate, the Dispenser of Grace

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In Surah Al-Imraan, 3:97- we read: “And Hajj (pilgrimage to Makkah) to the House (Ka’bah) is a duty that mankind owes to Allah, those who can afford the expenses (for one’s conveyance, provision and residence).but if any deny faith – Allah stands not in need of his creatures.”  

In This Khutbah today -  I would like to give some Philosophies around Hajj. When we teach the Hajj we deal with – The Ritualistic Dimensions of hajj – (Fiqhi Issues – The Rules on How to do the Hajj) then we also teach the Inner Dimensions – Why are we doing certain rituals –And we also teach the Spiritualistic perspectives – Then we also deal with the historical and Philosophical perspectives -

Let us see how hajj depicts death and the hereafter. A hajji leaves his home, bids farewell to all his dear ones and relatives' and departs from them just before he sets off alone. From there he proceeds to another country (as if into another world) leaving behind all those things to which he had been attached and with which he occupied most of his time; his house, his family, and the company of his friends. Death is the same. Therefore, when a person dies he leaves behind all this, his home, family, friends, country and everything that he loves. Such should the hajjis thoughts be when leaving for the house of Allah that in the same way as he is now leaving all worldly things behind for a short period of time, that time shall soon come when without a choice he shall have to leave them forever. After that, the hajji boards the train or plane, which begins to move him further and further away from his house and dear ones. --- So will his dear ones, relatives and friends lift his Janaazah? Having lifted it to their shoulders they will begin to move him further and further away from everything that he loved.

So he departs to Makkah (To Almighty Allah) like the Janaazah being carried to the grave.  Some would come to bid farewell at home, some will go as far as the station and the real faithful ones may even go further; up to the boat or Aeroplane. The position of the deceased and his friends is similar to that. Some may come only to the house to have a last look at him. Others will go a short way for the Janaazah prayers. The real friends will go as far as the grave, to place him inside and fill the grave with soil. The latter are like those faithful ones who will bid farewell at the airport.

"وَ مَا الحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا إِلاَّ مَتَاعُ الغُرُوْر"

“And the life of this world is but a chattel of deception (Al-Qur’an – 3:185)

كُنْ فِيْ الدُّنْيَا كَأَنَّكَ غَرِيْب أَوْ عَابِرُ السَّبِيْل

“Be in this world as if you are a traveller, or a wayfarer”. (Al-Hadith)

The greatest comfort a hajji enjoys in hajj comes from the money and provisions, which are acquired by him before his departure. Likewise, the greatest comfort one enjoys in the life after death is that which comes from the good deeds performed before his death. Sometimes, in hajj a person urgently requires more money; and you can imagine how happy one becomes if that which he needs urgently is sent to him by some near relative or friend. How thankful is one at that time? - Similarly, how thankful will the deceased be if after his demise his relatives, his friends or his children give charity and offer good deeds in his name, or recite the Quran etc; and pray for the rewards and blessings of that to be conveyed to him? These will surely reach him; because that is what our beloved Prophet (saw) said.

[In the next stage the hajji then has to pass through many perilous and unpleasant things. Ill-tempered government officials will search his luggage, query his documents etc. All these experiences remind us of various scenes of the grave as when Munkar and Nakir will come to question us; our Iman will be tested; some difficulties will be in Barzakh. In addition to this each one will have the book of his deeds with him.]  --  All of us have met people on their return from hajj and I think that all of us will affirm that almost no one comes back unaltered. With some returning hajjis the change is only superficial; the gloss disappears quickly; and within a very short time they are exactly as they were before. -----   Others, however, come back utterly transformed and their lives take on a new and more meaningful quality; for them the hajj really has acted as a new beginning to the rest of their lives.

It is not sufficient just to passively participate in the rites of hajj, it is necessary, as Almighty Allah makes clear to bring to them the inner dimension of Taqwah, fearful awareness of Allah. --- Certainly there is phenomenal blessings in the Manaasik/rites of HAJJ - stemming from the ancientness of their Divine prescription and billions of believers who have participated in them down through the centuries. But the benefit those performing them derive from them is directly proportional to the amount of Taqwah they bring to the Hajj. *“And take a provision (with you) for the journey, but the best provision is At-Taqwah (piety, righteousness, etc.).” [Al-Baqarah 2:197]

The first act the Hajjis perform upon their arrival in Makkah is the Tawaaf, the seven circuits of the House of Allah with which the rites of hajj begin. When one enters the great wheel which night and day incessantly revolves around the Ka’bah, it is all too easy to become distracted by the amazing sight it represents and the pushing and shoving which is the inevitable accompaniment of so many people moving round in a limited space and which becomes particularly vigorous in the vicinity of the Black Stone.- For this reason it is extremely important to keep a watch on your heart and your temperament and remember why you are there. Almighty Allah reminds Us - - Let there be no obscenity (immoral behaviour/ ugly sexual behaviour /indecency /vulgarity /immodesty) nor wickedness (coarseness/ crudeness /rudeness / ungodly behaviour) Nor wrangling (fighting /altercations /disputing /.quarrelling) -  For whatever good you do – be very sure Almighty Allah is aware.

The circle of the Tawaaf is perhaps the place on hajj where one is most aware of being a citizen of the world. Every continent, race, and nation is represented and, extraordinarily, the specific characteristics of each are evident in the way they perform the rites. (Manaasik)  - On another level the act of Tawaaf can be seen as a reflection of our lives. If you look carefully at your life you will see that it is not so much an unbroken progression from beginning to end - as a series of cycles which tend to bring you back and back again to the same point in a kind of repeating pattern.

What is to be desired both in our lives as a whole and in our Tawaaf -- is that our circling should not, as it were, remain always at the same level but should rather take the form of an upward spiral so that each time we pass the same point we have come that much closer to Allah than we were the previous time round. – Our lives should be about learning and growth – Islam is all about growth –Socialization - Transformation and not about stagnation. -

The Tawaaf ends with two rak'ats at the Maqaam of Ibraheem and this really is an exercise, which has great meaning for our lives as a whole. Somehow, in the midst of all the hustle and bustle of the Haraam, at the edge of, or even within the compass of, the endless wheeling of the Tawaaf crowd, we have to carve out a space for ourselves and locate a few moments of stillness and concentration in which we can stand and bow and prostrate and devote ourselves to the worship of our Lord  -- Almighty Allah.

After Tawaaf comes Sa’yi which in a way always reminds me of the rush hour in one of the great cities of the world. An endless mass of people flooding ceaselessly backwards and forwards in a paradoxical integration of confusion and order. Sa'y is a re-enactment of the desperate search for water by Hajjar, (as)the wife of Sayyidina Ibrahim, (as), when she and her young son Isma'il were placed by him in the Hands of Allah in the barren valley of Bakka (Makkah). She ran backwards and forwards between the two rocks of Safaa and Marwah, climbing first onto the one and then onto the other searching every horizon for that group of travelers who would save them from their plight. In the end, as we know, what they needed appeared literally under their feet with the emergence of the spring of Zam-Zam. How often we do the same thing in our own lives. When we are Traumatized  by something happening in our lives - desperately seeking help of one kind or another,  -  usually forgetting that Almighty Allah is very well aware of our circumstances, and then Allah's help arrives from right under our noses or sometimes even from within ourselves and the situation is resolved. Almighty Allah also commands “They said, “Allah is sufficient for us, and He is the best Disposer of our affairs.”--

Like all the rites of hajj the act of Sa’yi is packed with wisdom and many different insights can be gained from its performance. Like Hajirah (AS) begged to Allah not to let her child die from malnutrition and dehydration – something we should be very familiar with in Our Community – where we have so much poverty  -- so the Hujjaaj must beg Almighty Allah for all our children – We have so many Ishmael’s in our community.

The next step on the hajj is the move to Mina on the 8th of Dhu'l-Hijja. It is perhaps at Mina that the reality of the Ummah of Islam is most clearly to be seen. People tend to be camped according to the geographical area of the world from which they come so that at Mina all the races and nations of Islam more or less preserve their ethnic and national distinctions and yet are all in close juxtaposition to one another within a very confined area.

So for a few precious days communities normally separated by thousands of miles find themselves right next door to one another and in the benign atmosphere of hajj that brotherhood of Islam, which is so elusive in today's artificially divided world, finds genuine and heartwarming expression, as Muslims from every part of the globe meet and enjoy the pleasure of one another's company. - Surah 49/v13 "O mankind! We have created you from a single pair of male and female, and made you into nations and tribes that you may know each other. The most honoured of you is he who is the most righteous of you" surely Allah is All Knowing, Aware.--

The Prophet, salla'Llahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said, "Hajj is 'Arafah," so it is evident that the great gathering of the hajji's on the plain of 'Arafah is the core rite of hajj. This is what everyone has come for. There is no doubt that in an almost explicit way it prefigures that Final Gathering which all of us will inevitably attend on the last day. It is there at 'Arafah that the reality of the state of ihram is made most manifest. The lives of all who are present are stripped down to the barest essentials.

All distinctions are removed. Wealth and poverty, every kind of class distinction, all the things which normally set people apart from one another in their worldly lives, all these things are set aside and all that remains is the simple fact of our common humanity. All we have is our actions, what we have done with ourselves up to that point, what we have turned ourselves into by what we have done, nothing more and nothing less than what we truly are. It is a priceless opportunity to take stock. We stand there, as it were, naked in front of our Lord, with all the normal distractions and cushions taken away, face to face with Allah with nothing in between but the veil of our own existence.

The three rites of the Eid after returning to Mina are stoning the Jamaraat al-'Aqaba, sacrificing an animal and shaving the head.  -- Stoning the Jamrahs is often referred to as stoning Shaytaan. Allah warns us against Shaytaan and informs us unequivocally that he is our enemy and perhaps one lesson we can learn is that even on this most blessed of days, the Eid al-Adha, we are not safe from Shay tan’s insinuations and must protect ourselves from them. Sheikh ibn al-'Arabi al-Hatimi takes that one step further in his explanation of the rite. He says that at 'MINA we purify our understanding of Tauheed and rid ourselves of shirk and that in throwing the seven stones we are casting out of ourselves certain Shaytaan inspired thoughts  or SATANIC manifestations  - that make us associate other things with Allah and that is why we call out the Takbeer as we throw. Stating that Allah is indeed the greatest and that Shaytaan can never ever be the greatest.--  So rather than throwing stones at Shaytaan we are casting out from ourselves satanic thoughts.

As Allah Almighty makes clear, the important element in the rite of sacrifice is that awareness of Him in us which must accompany the physical act and which alone imbues it with meaning. We should remember that it commemorates the occasion when Sayyidina Ibrahim, 'alayhi as-salam, was absolved from having to sacrifice his beloved son and given a ram to sacrifice in his stead. So what the rite indicates is our preparedness to give up what is most precious to us for the sake of Allah.

The thing more precious to us than anything else is our own selfhood, our own independent existence, and so, in its highest sense, the sacrifice represents our willingness to give up our own will and submit ourselves entirely to the will of our Lord and the truth is that by doing this we stand to lose nothing and to gain our heart's desire. Allah says in Surah at-Taubah: "Allah has bought from the Mu’minoon their selves and their wealth in return for the Garden  -- and then at the end of the ayah: "Rejoice then in the bargain you have made. That is the great victory." (9:111)

The sheer physical relief of removing the accumulated dust and grime and dishevelment of our days in ihram in itself gives a more than adequate meaning to the act of shaving the head and the cleaning process which accompanies it. It really does give one a sense of starting life all over again. It is this very feeling which validates a slightly more symbolic interpretation of the rite which is, that in getting rid of your hair you are in a certain sense stripping away your past and that the new hair growth as it emerges truly is indicative of a new beginning to your life as a whole. In the case of women, who may only shorten their hair, and men who decide to do that rather than shave, the same applies but in a more symbolic way.

One aspect of the journey to the Hijaaz we have so far not mentioned at all is the visit to Madinah al-Munawwara. Although Not part of the HAJJ - This is strongly recommended --  "Visiting the tomb of the Prophet, salla'Llahu 'alayhi wa sallam, is a Sunnah among the Muslims on which there is agreement. It is a virtue which is encouraged." If Makkah is a crucible where the hajji is purged and purified, Madinah is a pool of tranquillity where he finds peace and refreshment. Remember that it was in Madinah that the social reality of Islam was first given form, where the justice and compassion of Allah's deen found their most perfect expression, that city about whose inhabitants Allah Himself said, "You are the best community ever to be produced before mankind." Enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong and believing in Allah --  (3:110)

What was latent and implicit during the long and difficult years in Makkah became realized and explicit in Madinah and a community of human beings living according to the laws of Allah by following the example of His Messenger brought about the best human social situation ever to have existed on the surface of the earth. It is the resonance of this which emanates from the grave of the Prophet, salla'Llahu 'alayhi wa sallam, and still pervades the city which welcomed him and made it possible for Islam to be implemented in its totality.

One does not have to go too far to discover the spiritual benefits of the visit to Medina. - And certainly there are very few hajjis who do not experience something of the sweetness of the Prophetic presence during their stay in Madinah. So just as the hajj itself imbues one with a greater sense of the Divine presence and fosters love of Allah in the heart, the visit to Madinah opens the heart to greater love for His Messenger and by extension to the whole Ummah of Islam.

IN CONCLUSION -- What I have hoped to do by talking of these aspects of HAJJ - is to indicate something of the inner dimension of the various rites of hajj. But in the end, although such indications may perhaps open a door or two to a deeper appreciation of the hajj, it is only your own tasting of the acts themselves, which will really be of any use. It is only your direct experience of the rites of hajj which will actually constitute your hajj, and your hajj will inevitably be uniquely your own, totally different from everyone else's, even that of someone who may have been alongside you for most of the time you were there.

This is because the hajj is as much an inward journey as an outward one and, as we have seen, it is that inward dimension, the unknowable amount of that outwardly indefinable but indispensable quality of Taqwah which you bring to all the rites you perform, --   it is that and that alone on which the amount of benefit you receive from the hajj and its acceptability to Allah in the end depends.  Hajj is a compulsory pilgrimage to weaken the love for the world: Hajj is indeed a constant reminder of Almighty Allah and a stark reminder of the hereafter –

"إِنَّا ِللهِ وَ إِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُوْن"

“Indeed we come from Allah and to Him is our return”.(Al-Qur’ān - 2:156)

Labbayk Allahuma Labbayk  -- Here I am O Allah, at Thy Command. Here I am, at Thy Command. -- There is no partner unto Thee. Here I am, at Thy Command. -- Verily Thine is the praise, the blessings and the sovereignty of the universe. There is no partner unto thee.

We pray for the safety and good health of all Hujjaaj, - May Almighty Allah take good care of them on their journey to Makkah, Medina and all the other sacred Places. –

May Almighty Allah accept their Hajj, and when they have completed their duties, may Allah return them safely to their homes and families, Insha-Allah. –

May Allah Most Gracious, also accept this prayer, that each and every one of us here in this Masjid and elsewhere, should find the means and the opportunity, to perform our sacred duty, and complete our own Hajj, at Almighty Allah’s invitation, in the near future.

 
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